Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: The Cost of Adoption

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The Cost of Adoption
Nov 30th 2011, 13:00

The cost of adoption will vary by the type of adoption being considered and the fees attached. Adoption costs vary due to, for example, agency and lawyer fees, travel costs, and birth family needs. Adoption costs range from zero with state adoptions to over $30,000 with domestic private or independent adoptions.

Breakdown of Cost by Type of Adoption

Estimates of Adoption Cost

Need Help Affording the Cost of Adoption?

Source: Child Welfare Information Gateway

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Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: New Article Round-up for November 2011

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New Article Round-up for November 2011
Nov 30th 2011, 02:29

There has been much to think about this month and as I encounter new territory as a foster parent - yes, even after fifteen years - or wade knee deep into parenting situations that seem all to familiar - I am inspired to share what I've learned with you.

From the Presidential Proclamation for Adoption Month and my thoughts on why foster care disruptions occur to Russian Christmas traditions, my thoughts and interests this month have been all over the place.� Here are the latest articles for November 2011.

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Adoption / Foster Care: Ending November and Adoption Month with Celebrity Adoptions

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Ending November and Adoption Month with Celebrity Adoptions
Nov 29th 2011, 22:41

Well, adoption month is almost over and it seems that more celebrity adoptions are being discussed in the news. Some are a surprise, while others...not so much.

Seal and Heidi Klum It seems that Seal and Klum have been inspired by friend and adoptive mother, Sandra Bullock. The couple stated in an interview with Closer magazine that the time isn't right yet, but that they are considering adoption in the future. The couple already have four birth children ranging in age from seven to two. Bullock adopted Louis from Africa as a single mom early last year. Louis is now 18-months-old.

Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie Rumors are flying thanks to British tabloid, The Daily Star, that a seventh child will be adopted from Ethiopia. The Daily Star, states that a source shared that Jolie and Pitt promised Zahara a long time ago that they would adopt again from Ethiopia so that she could have someone else in the family to relate to. I have no idea if it's true or not, but it wouldn't surprise me. Does it surprise you?

Sources Seal and Klum consider adoption Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt adopting a 7th child?

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Adoption / Foster Care: New Article Round-up for November 2011

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New Article Round-up for November 2011
Nov 30th 2011, 02:29

There has been much to think about this month and as I encounter new territory as a foster parent - yes, even after fifteen years - or wade knee deep into parenting situations that seem all to familiar - I am inspired to share what I've learned with you.

From the Presidential Proclamation for Adoption Month and my thoughts on why foster care disruptions occur to Russian Christmas traditions, my thoughts and interests this month have been all over the place.� Here are the latest articles for November 2011.

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Monday, November 28, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Adoption an Option?

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Adoption an Option?
Nov 28th 2011, 19:45

Whatever happened to families sticking together, working out their problems and being there for each other? That is how some members of the adoption triad feel about placing children in adoptive homes. I've read many grandparents and adoptees on our forum ask, "What's wrong with having a teen, single, or a poor parent? Especially when there are parents, grandparents, siblings, or other members of the birth family available to help support the mother or father." Many feel that being in one's own biological family is so important for a sense of well-being that being in a potential rough situation is worth it. Some adoptees have found themselves in less-than desirable adoptive homes and have been left wondering, "Would my own birth family’s situation have been any worse?"

Many birth mothers place their children in an adoptive family hoping that her offspring will have that sought after "American Dream" - the perfect life. Most of us will admit that this is not reality. So, what are good reasons to place a child for adoption? What is a scared, expectant mother to do?

  • Be smart
  • Be prepared
  • Be decisive

Know that YOU as the Mother and/or Father are in control of the future of YOUR child until the final papers are signed.

Current Status

The following is a very active poll that has been running on this site for several months. While not scientific or perfect, it does give an interesting glimpse into some of the reasons mothers have chosen to place their children for adoption.

Why Did You Place Your Child for Adoption?

View Results

What's at Stake?

Know this, adoption is about loss, not only a loss for you and your child, but your entire family.

What are the reasons for and against choosing adoption?

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Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Handprint Turkey

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Handprint Turkey
Nov 23rd 2011, 10:02

Cute and fun turkey with handprint cutouts for tail feathers. A perfect Thanksgiving or Fall card/gift for birth family either in a foster or adopt situation.

Difficulty: Easy

Time Required: 30 Minutes - Plus Time for the Glue to Dry

Here's How:

  1. Have your child place a shoe on brown construction paper. Trace around his or her shoe and cut out the shape.
  2. On three different colors of construction paper trace your child's hand and cut out. Consider fall colors for this part of the project - orange, green, yellow, red would look great as turkey feathers.
  3. Cut out a small orange triangle for a beak and rectangles for feet and legs. Have the child cut slits on the bottom short edge of the rectangles for the turkey's toes.
  4. Cut out small circles for eyes in your child's choice of color.
  5. Out of red construction paper cut out the turkey's wattle(You know that red thing that dangles off the beak.). Any blob-type shape will work. My daughter's turkey looks cute the way it is.
  6. Now glue the guy together. Have the child attach the handprints to the back of the brown shoe print (heel up) so that the fingers stick up like feathers.
  7. Glue on the eyes and add black pupils with a crayon.
  8. Glue the orange triangle on upside down for the beak. Glue on the wattle underneath and to one side of the beak.
  9. Glue on the orange rectangles as legs and feet with the clipped toes at the bottom.
  10. Find a spot to date the turkey and add the child's name and age.

What You Need:

  • Brown construction paper
  • Orange construction paper
  • Two other colors of construction paper - green, yellow, or red would be good
  • Scissors
  • Pen or pencil
  • Glue

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Foster Parent Challenges

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Foster Parent Challenges
Nov 23rd 2011, 10:02

  • Working with Behaviors - A foster parent often works with children who exhibit a variety of behavior challenges. Children come into foster care for any number of reasons. A few examples include physical abuse, sexual abuse, neglect, emotional abuse, or a birth parent's incarceration. Many times children will express their feelings through behaviors. Some behaviors can be mild such as tantrums, bed wetting, cussing, or lying. There are some behaviors that can be extreme such as masturbating, stealing, or running away. Many times a foster parent can help a child work through behaviors; it just takes being in a stable, consistent home. However, there are times when behaviors hang on, sometimes for life, every child and case is different. These behaviors can be challenging to a foster parent.
    What a foster parent can do: There are free trainings as well as other resources available to foster or adoptive parents to help in parenting such behaviors.

  • Subjective Field with High Turn Over - There doesn't seem to be a clear cut guideline in the field of social services. Each social worker may see the same issue in several different ways. Meaning one social worker may see hope in a new drug treatment program for a birth mom and birth dad while another social worker may not agree with the plan.

    A field that is so challenging and stressful often leads to high turn over, bringing new workers onto the case as old ones burn out from stress. In a two year period our first foster daughter had ten different social workers. Each one seemed to have a different idea on the family's situation and a new approach. This is probably why it took two years to bring about a final decision. This can be very challenging to a foster parent.
    What a foster parent can do: Remain as patient as possible.

  • Interacting with Birth Family - In many states a foster parent is asked to work with their foster child's birth family. This is challenging to some foster parents for many different reasons. It can be difficult to watch a family fall apart and know that there is nothing that can be done to help. Other times the difficulty lies in working with angry, resentful people who are upset that their child is in a foster home. Helping those who don't feel they need help or who pretend that they are doing well, can add to the challenge. Usually a foster parent is not left alone to make decisions for or against contact between a foster family and the birth family. This is usually in the hands of the social workers assigned to the case.
    What a foster parent can do: Never make contact without checking it out with the social workers first and never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Keep appointments with birth family and remain positive in front of your foster children, while also remaining honest about the situation.

  • Slow Court System - An overworked court system with many delays can really add to the challenge of foster parenting. The judge on the case has the final word on which direction a case goes, whether that be termination or reunification with family. It can be a challenge to work with a birth family and a foster child while feeling constantly in a legal limbo by a continued case.
    What a foster parent can do: Be sure to have your court reports in on time and thoroughly document how the child is doing in your home. It's important that the foster parent be careful in stating your opinion, but include facts on behaviors, grades, and how visitation and other interactions the child has are progressing or regressing.

  • Being Part of a Team - As a foster parent you are automatically a part of a team. Usually the team is made up of social workers, therapists, court officials, birth family, and others. It can be difficult working together, but when the team is not in agreement, it can be especially challenging. This is not an unique problem to foster parenting or to social services, it just seems to be an inherent problem to working with others.
    What a foster parent can do: Be prepared to be an awesome team member by being prepared for meetings, and showing up with an open mind.

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    Tuesday, November 22, 2011

    Adoption / Foster Care: Russian Adoption in the News - Two Infamous Cases in and Out of Court

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    Russian Adoption in the News - Two Infamous Cases in and Out of Court
    Nov 23rd 2011, 00:31

    The Craver Case. On November 18, Michael and Nannette Craver were found guilty of unpremeditated murder of their Russian adopted son, Nathaniel. They each received 16 months in jail on counts of involuntary homicide, and taking into account the fact that they have been in custody since March 2010, they were let go with time served. While prosecutors asked for the death penalty, the jury didn't find that the couple had deliberately murdered the child.

    Russian officials are very upset by this decision believing that it was too lenient of a sentence and are doing their own investigation to have the Cravers placed on the international wanted list.

    Nathaniel and his twin sister were adopted in 2003. He died in Augusta 25, 2009, from a head injury five days after arriving to the hospital in a coma. His sister has been staying with family since his death.

    Sources:
    Manslaughter of foster kid lands US couple on Russia's wanted list
    Russia Attacks Sentence of Adoptee's Parents

    Tennessee Mom Who Returned Her Adopted Russian Child. I'm sure most of you remember back in April 2010, when Torry Hansen returned her then 7-year-old adopted son back to Russia. Inside the child's jacket was a note proclaiming that he had "severe psychopathic issues" and she didn't wish to parent him any longer. Well, the case is finally going to court sometime in early 2012, with The World Association for Children and Parents, Hansen's adoption agency, seeking child support.

    Hansen tried, unsuccessfully, to close the court hearings, but the judge has ruled that the hearing will be open to the press and public. The court date is set for January, but both sides are needing more time to prepare, so the court date could be pressed back to March or April of next year.

    Hansen's actions effectively closed down Russian adoptions for almost a year and prompted an adoption agreement between Russia and the United States.

    SOURCES:
    Tennessee woman who sent adopted child back to Russia wants court hearings closed
    Trial of Tenn. woman who returned adopted son to be public

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    Adoption / Foster Care: Russian Adoption in the News - Two Infamous Cases in and Out of Court

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    Russian Adoption in the News - Two Infamous Cases in and Out of Court
    Nov 23rd 2011, 00:31

    The Craver Case. On November 18, Michael and Nannette Craver were found guilty of unpremeditated murder of their Russian adopted son, Nathaniel. They each received 16 months in jail on counts of involuntary homicide, and taking into account the fact that they have been in custody since March 2010, they were let go with time served. While prosecutors asked for the death penalty, the jury didn't find that the couple had deliberately murdered the child.

    Russian officials are very upset by this decision believing that it was too lenient of a sentence and are doing their own investigation to have the Cravers placed on the international wanted list.

    Nathaniel and his twin sister were adopted in 2003. He died in Augusta 25, 2009, from a head injury five days after arriving to the hospital in a coma. His sister has been staying with family since his death.

    Sources: Manslaughter of foster kid lands US couple on Russia's wanted list Russia Attacks Sentence of Adoptee's Parents

    Tennessee Mom Who Returned Her Adopted Russian Child. I'm sure most of you remember back in April 2010, when Torry Hansen returned her then 7-year-old adopted son back to Russia. Inside the child's jacket was a note proclaiming that he had "severe psychopathic issues" and she didn't wish to parent him any longer. Well, the case is finally going to court sometime in early 2012, with The World Association for Children and Parents, Hansen's adoption agency, seeking child support.

    Hansen tried, unsuccessfully, to close the court hearings, but the judge has ruled that the hearing will be open to the press and public. The court date is set for January, but both sides are needing more time to prepare, so the court date could be pressed back to March or April of next year.

    Hansen's actions effectively closed down Russian adoptions for almost a year and prompted an adoption agreement between Russia and the United States.

    SOURCES: Tennessee woman who sent adopted child back to Russia wants court hearings closed Trial of Tenn. woman who returned adopted son to be public

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    Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: What About a Gay Foster Parent?

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    What About a Gay Foster Parent?
    Nov 22nd 2011, 10:00

    Question: Can a Gay or Lesbian Become a Foster Parent?

    Gay Adoption FAQ #1 | FAQ #2 | FAQ #3 | FAQ #4 | FAQ #5 | FAQ #6 | FAQ #7 | FAQ #8 | FAQ #9 | FAQ #10

    Answer:

    Whether a gay or lesbian person can become a foster parent will be determined on a state by state basis. Each state will have its own rules and regulations regarding fostering. Some regulations might include bedroom sizes, safety standards for the home, and/or number of children allowed in the home. I would recommend contacting your state and asking about requirements on whether they would support a gay foster parent.

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    Monday, November 21, 2011

    Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Foster Care Adoption Poems

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    Foster Care Adoption Poems
    Nov 21st 2011, 10:00

    Birth Mother Poems | Foster Care Adoption Poems | Adoptee Poems | Adoption Reunion Poems | Adoptive Parent Poems | Adoption Poems for Little Ones

    Adoption poems specifically, foster care and foster care adoption poems, sent in by readers of About Adoption & Foster Care. If you have an adoption or foster care poem that you would like to share for possible publication, please submit it to About Adoption & Foster Care for review.

    Adoption Poems about Foster Care Adoption

    Adoption Poems by Subject - Main Page

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    Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Russian Murder Cases

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    Russian Murder Cases
    Nov 21st 2011, 10:00

    Since 1996, when the U.S. began adopting from Russia, 16 Russian children have died at the hand of their U.S. adoptive parents. Here are some quick facts on these chilling cases.

    February 9, 1996 - David Polreis, Jr:

    age 2, of Greeley, Colorado was beaten to death. Over 90% of David's body was covered in cuts, which his adoptive mother, Renee Polreis, claimed was due to the boys severe RAD. Renee stated that David would hit himself with a wooden spoon. Husband, David Polreis, Sr. was out of town at time of attack and was not implicated. Rene Polreis was convicted of child abuse resulting in death and sentenced to 18 years in prison. David was adopted 6 months before his death.

    November 25, 1998 - Logan Higginbotham:

    age 3, of Shelburne, Vermont died of massive head injuries. Adoptive mother Laura Higginbotham, stated that Logan fell and hit her head on the floor of an upstairs bedroom. It took 3 years for the medical examiner to determine whether the case was accidental or homicide. In 2004, Laura Higginbotham pled no contest to a charge of involuntary manslaughter and was sentenced to 1 year in prison. Logan was in US 7 months before her death.

    October 31, 2000 - Viktor Matthey:

    age 6, of Hunterdon County, New Jersey died of cardiac arrest due to hyperthermia after adoptive parents Robert and Brenda Matthey locked him overnight in a damp unheated pump room. Viktor was also severely beaten by his adoptive father. Both parents are sentenced to 10 years for confining Viktor to a pump room, 10 years for excessive corporal punishment and 7 years for failing to provide medical care. The sentences run concurrently. Viktor was in the US 10 months before his death.

    November 30, 2001 - Luke Evans:

    age 1.5 of Lowell, Indiana died of massive head injuries, shaken baby syndrome, and poor nutrition. Adoptive mother, Natalie Fabian Evans, stated that she couldn't wake Luke one morning and so placed him in a tub of water to "stimulate him" where she says he may have bumped his head on the tub. The authorities took a year to investigate the case. Evans is scheduled to stand trial for murder in October 2005. Luke was in the US 6 months before his death.

    December 14, 2001 - Jacob Lindorff:

    age 5, of Gloucester Twp, New Jersey died of blunt force trauma to head. Also suffered from 2nd degree burns on feet, hemorrhaging in 1 eye; bruises, and seizures. Adoptive mother Heather Lindorff, was found guilty of 2nd degree endangering, aggravated assault and sentenced to 6 years. Adoptive father, James, sentenced to 4 years probation and 400 hours of community service for child abuse. Adoptive mother claimed that the injuries were accidents. Jacob was in the US 6 weeks before his death.

    August 15, 2002 - Zachary Higier:

    age 2, of Braintree, Massachusetts, died of severe head trauma. Adoptive mother Natalia Higier, stated that he had fallen out of his crib or hit his head on the floor. She later admitted to tossing him into the air and he hit his head on the coffee table. Zachary sustained a bilateral skull fracture, strokes, brain swelling, and detached retinas. Natalia pled guilty to involuntary manslaughter and was sentenced to 2 1/2 years in jail with 18 months balance of sentence suspended for 4 years.

    October 23, 2002 - Maria Bennett:

    age 2, of Lancaster, Ohio, died from shaken baby syndrome. Adoptive mother Susan Jane Bennett, said that she had tripped while carrying Maria and had dropped her. Medical evidence proved otherwise. Susan Bennett pled no contest to 1 count of reckless homicide and was sentenced to 3 years in prison. Maria was adopted 9 months before her death.

    August 11, 2003 - Jessica Albina Hagmann:

    age 2, died from smothering. Adoptive mother, Patrice Hagmann claimed that she accidentally killed Jessica while trying to stop her from having a tantrum. Patrice was sentenced to probation and to 2 suspended 5 year terms.

    October 16, 2003 - Liam Thompson:

    age 3, of Columbus, Ohio, died from scalding and neglect. His adoptive father, Gary, placed him in a tub of 140 degree water. He received 2nd and 3rd degree burns. His LPN adoptive mother, Amy, neglected treatment for 2 days, then treated him with Tylenol and Vaseline. She took Liam to the hospital only after he went into respiratory failure. Amy was sentence to 15 years for child endangering and involuntary manslaughter. Gary received 15-life for murder. Liam was adopted 5 months prior.

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    Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: National Adoption Day

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    National Adoption Day
    Nov 21st 2011, 10:00

    November 19, 2011, will mark the 12th year for Adoption Day, which is part of National Adoption Month. Through the help of adoption professionals, child advocates, judges, and attorneys, thousands of children in foster care will finalize adoption and become part of a permanent home and family.

    The History of National Adoption Day

    • 2000 - National Adoption Day began with the Alliance for Children's Rights and support from the Freddie Mac Foundation, the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption, and others. Hundreds of adoptions were finalized in 9 jurisdictions.
    • 2001 - The number of jurisdictions increased to 17.
    • 2002 - Assistance from Casey Family Services, Children's Action Network, the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute and Target. This support brought 34 jurisdictions to National Adoption Day and 1,350 adoptions were finalized.
    • 2003 - 3,100 adoptions were finalized and 120 jurisdictions participated in the event.
    • 2004 - 3,400 adoptions finalized at 200 events in 37 states.
    • 2005 - The largest number of coast-to-coast celebrations for National Adoption Day to date! More than 3,300 children's adoptions were finalized from foster care in 227 events in 45 states and the District of Columbia.
    • 2006 - More than 250 events in all fifty states including the District of Columbia and Puerto Rico! More than 3,300 adoption were finalized.
    • 2007 - More than 300 events were held in all fifty states including the District of Columbia and Puerto Rico.
    • 2008 - More than 4,000 children across all 50 states found loving, permanent homes.
    • 2009 - A total of 345 Adoption Day events in all 50 states, the District of Columbia and Puerto Rico with more than 4,500 children adopted from foster care!
    • 2010 - A totoal of 4,800 children were adopted from foster care and finalized in court on November 20, National Adoption Day in 2010.

    Each year, more and more children are being adopted on Adoption Day and the events are becoming more widespread. In total more than 35,000 children have been adopted from foster care on National Adoption Day.

    Goals of Adoption Day 2011

    • Finalize adoptions from foster care in all 50 states
    • Celebrate and honor all families that adopt
    • Raise awareness about the 107,000 children in foster care waiting for adoption
    • Encourage others to adopt children from foster care
    • Build collaboration among local adoption agencies, courts and advocacy organizations

    For More Information on Adoption Day and to Find Activities in Your Area:
    National Adoption Day Web site

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    SOURCE:
    National Adoption Day website

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    Sunday, November 20, 2011

    Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: National Ban on Gay Fostering

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    National Ban on Gay Fostering
    Nov 20th 2011, 10:00

    Question: How Would National Ban on Gay / Lesbian Foster Parents Impact each State?

    This report provides new information on GLB adoption and foster care from the U.S. Census 2000, the National Survey of Family Growth (2002), and the Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (2004).

    Gay Adoption FAQ #1 | FAQ #2 | FAQ #3 | FAQ #4 | FAQ #5 | FAQ #6 | FAQ #7 | FAQ #8 | FAQ #9 | FAQ #10

    Answer:

    A ban on gay and lesbian individuals being allowed to foster could displace 9,000 to 14,000 children if pursued nationally.

    Such a national ban on GLB (Gay Lesbian Bi-sexual) foster care could cost from $87 to $130 million. The costs to individual states could range from $100,000 to $27 million.

    SOURCE:
    Adoption and Foster Care by Lesbian and Gay Parents in the United States Author(s): Gary Gates, Lee M.V. Badgett, Jennifer Ehrle Macomber, Kate Chambers with the Urban Institute.

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    Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Respite Care

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    Respite Care
    Nov 20th 2011, 10:00

    Respite is a much needed service to fostering families. It allows foster parents to take a break, which helps prevent burn out. Respite offers birth children of the foster home quality time with their parents. It also gives the foster children a break. Hopefully, the foster children will be spending a weekend with other foster children; children they can relate to.

    A poorly planned respite weekend can cause more stress for everyone involved: foster family, respite provider, and the foster children. Here are some tips for having a successful respite weekend.

    Setting it Up With Your Agency

    Contact your worker well in advance of your respite date so she can have adequate time to find a respite family for you. Two weeks advance notice is usually a good amount of time to give. If you find your own respite provider, let the social worker know who you have chosen and get it approved.

    Do your foster children know the respite family? To avoid further trauma, try to have a visit with the respite family beforehand. Sometimes this is not possible especially, in emergency cases, but highly recommended, especially for children with attachment issues.

    Setting it Up With the Respite Provider

    When contacting the respite family make sure to clarify the drop off and pick up dates. I have done respite for a foster family in the past, and we had a major misunderstanding on the pick up date. This caused confusion and stress for both myself and the foster family, as they had to pick up their foster children a day ahead of their planned schedule.

    Not a good way to end a restful weekend.

    During your first phone contact remember to mention any appointments, such as visits to the respite provider. It would be extremely unfair to spring this information on them at the last minute. If they are unable to make these appointments, you may need to choose another provider, or speak with your social worker on rescheduling the appointments. If conflicting schedules mean that visits may be missed, it's in the birth family's best interest if another provider is searched out. If this is impossible, again, contact your social worker on rescheduling immediately. Visits are the heart of the reunification process.

    Packing for Respite Care

    When packing for your foster children, be sure to include enough clean clothes. Don't forget extra underwear and socks. For infants and toddlers too many diapers and wipes are better than not enough. It would not be fair if the respite provider had to go purchase more items because they were not given a sufficient supply to get through the weekend.

    Have the children pick out a special toy or stuffed animal to help them at bed time.

    I am also a big believer in picture books. Put together a small scrapbook. The kind with pages that you can just slip the pictures into would be easiest to prepare. Include pictures of birth family, foster family, friends and pets.

    Making a Respite Packet

    A foster care respite packet is something you only have to make once and can make ahead of time! Find a handy printable worksheet and step-by-step instructions on how to create your own respite packet by following these links:

    .

    When I need to use respite, I only have to add medication to the packet, update appointment information (if any) and the kids are ready to go. This packet also comes in handy when going to doctor or dental visits as all needed paperwork is ready.

    Preparation is the key to a great respite weekend. You can come back to the children relaxed and ready to get back to work serving your community, providing homes for children, and helping families heal.

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    Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Confidential Intermediary

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    Confidential Intermediary
    Nov 20th 2011, 10:00

    Definition: Acting on behalf of a member of the adoption triad, (birth parent, adoptive parent, or adoptee) the confidential intermediary (CI) attempts to make contact with the other members of the triad. Acting as a go between for the parties involved, the CI determines the willingness of each member to allow the confidential information that was part of the adoption agreement, to be waived fully or partially. A CI can be a state employee or a volunteer who has been trained in search and adoption issues. The CI also acts with court or legal approval.

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    Saturday, November 19, 2011

    Adoption / Foster Care: Today Is National Adoption Day!

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    Today Is National Adoption Day!
    Nov 19th 2011, 08:00

    Today, November 19, 2011, marks the 112th year for National Adoption Day. Through the help of adoption professionals, child advocates, judges, and attorneys, thousands of children in foster care will finalize their adoptions and become part of a permanent home and family.

    I hope that this National Adoption Day is as successful as the year before. Initial reports are hoping that 4,500 children from foster care will enter into their forever home today. If you are one of those families, don't forget to spread the good news with an awesome adoption announcement!

    How are you celebrating National Adoption Day?

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    Adoption / Foster Care: Today Is National Adoption Day!

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    Today Is National Adoption Day!
    Nov 19th 2011, 08:00

    Today, November 19, 2011, marks the 112th year for National Adoption Day. Through the help of adoption professionals, child advocates, judges, and attorneys, thousands of children in foster care will finalize their adoptions and become part of a permanent home and family.

    I hope that this National Adoption Day is as successful as the year before. Initial reports are hoping that 4,500 children from foster care will enter into their forever home today. If you are one of those families, don't forget to spread the good news with an awesome adoption announcement!

    How are you celebrating National Adoption Day?

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