Monday, October 31, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: From File Reading Tips to Family Meetings - New Articles to Help You on Your Foster or Adoption Journey

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From File Reading Tips to Family Meetings - New Articles to Help You on Your Foster or Adoption Journey
Oct 31st 2011, 16:01

I continue to add new articles based on suggestions from readers. If there is information you feel is lacking here, please don't hesitate to ask me! I am always looking for new ideas to research and write about.

This week I've added two new articles on file reading. Once matched to a child, prospective adoptive parents can read the child's file to learn more about the needs and history of the child. I also have information on what to look for specifically within the files as they can be overwhelming.

I've also added a new article today about the importance of holding a family meeting with new foster or adopted children within the first week of them residing in your home. What a great way to get to know the children and help establish boundaries, rules, and expectations.

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Adoption / Foster Care: From File Reading Tips to Family Meetings - New Articles to Help You on Your Foster or Adoption Journey

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From File Reading Tips to Family Meetings - New Articles to Help You on Your Foster or Adoption Journey
Oct 31st 2011, 16:01

I continue to add new articles based on suggestions from readers. If there is information you feel is lacking here, please don't hesitate to ask me! I am always looking for new ideas to research and write about.

This week I've added two new articles on file reading. Once matched to a child, prospective adoptive parents can read the child's file to learn more about the needs and history of the child. I also have information on what to look for specifically within the files as they can be overwhelming.

I've also added a new article today about the importance of holding a family meeting with new foster or adopted children within the first week of them residing in your home. What a great way to get to know the children and help establish boundaries, rules, and expectations.

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Homosexuals and Molestation

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Homosexuals and Molestation
Oct 31st 2011, 10:01

Question: Will Children be Molested by a Homosexual Parent?

Gay Adoption FAQ #1 | FAQ #2 | FAQ #3 | FAQ #4 | FAQ #5 | FAQ #6 | FAQ #7 | FAQ #8 | FAQ #9 | FAQ #10

Answer:

Sexual orientation is an adult attraction to other adults. Pedophilia is an adult sexual attraction to children. In a study of 269 cases of child sex abuse, only two offenders where found to be gay or lesbian.

Studies show that a large portion of child abuse occurs at the hand of a heterosexual man.

Another study followed 269 cases of child sexual abuse. Only 2 of the perpetrators were gay or lesbian.

74% of the perpetrators were or had been in a heterosexual relationship with the boy's mother or another female relative.

"The study concluded that 'a child's risk of being molested by his or her relative's heterosexual partner is over 100 times greater than by someone who might be identifiable as being homosexual, lesbian, or bisexual.'"

SOURCE:
Overview of Lesbian and Gay Parenting, Adoption and Foster Care - April 6, 1999 Fact Sheet - ACLU

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: African American Hair Care

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African American Hair Care
Oct 31st 2011, 10:01

Keeping a good hair regime not only requires using quality, salon grade products, but it also calls for using the proper tools when styling. Curly women and girls require the quality brushes and combs to not only bring out the best in their hair, but to avoid unnecessary damage and breakage.

  • Wide tooth comb or pick, the wider the better. Learn about choosing the right comb in this quick tip.
  • Natural bristle brush. Read more on bristle brushes before making a selection.
  • Hydrating shampoo.
  • Moisturizing Conditioner.
  • A daily moisturizer; this will add needed moisture, and ease comb-ability.
  • Natural oils to apply to the hair (I recommend pomegranate seed oil.
  • Cream hair dressing for light control of frizzes.
  • Elastics for securing ponytails.

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Not Allowed to Celebrate Halloween

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Not Allowed to Celebrate Halloween
Oct 31st 2011, 10:01

Yes, most of us look forward to Halloween night. It's not only a lot of fun for children, but for most adults too. But, there are times when a foster child is not allowed to celebrate Halloween due to birth parent's request or a foster child's religion. Here are a few ideas of fun things to do if your foster child is unable to celebrate Halloween.

  • Rent movies, stay home, and eat pop corn.

  • Start a new tradition - order pizza and stay home telling each other dumb jokes. See who can tell the funniest story.

  • Attend fun fall parties that some communities or churches offer.

  • Bake cookies together.

  • Build a scarecrow together for the front yard. Set up other fall decorations like gourds, pumpkins and bales of hay.

  • Some children may enjoy putting on a fashion show.

  • Have fun completing a fun fall craft like a turkey with hand print feathers, simple hand print turkey, or double hand print turkey.

  • Go out to a movie knowing that the theaters will be pretty empty.

  • Go to a book store and buy a book that you can read to each other.

  • Go to a book store and buy a craft book or a book with projects. Go home and complete a project.

  • Try a new recipe that uses Halloween candy. Odds are good that it'll be on sale at the stores if you buy it on Halloween night.

  • Work on the child's lifebook with the child.

  • Write a letter to the child's birth parents, if appropriate per case plan.

  • Enjoy many of the other fun fall options mentioned in the article, Fall Fun for Foster and Adopted Children If Halloween Is Too Scary - Fall Fun May Be the Answer.

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Sunday, October 30, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: Adolf Hitler and His Sisters Remain in Foster Care

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Adolf Hitler and His Sisters Remain in Foster Care
Oct 30th 2011, 23:30

Heath and Deborah Campbell are still fighting to regain custody of their three children - Adolf Hitler Campbell, 5, JoyceLynn Aryan Nation, 3, and Honszlynn Hinler Jeannie Campbell - after 33 months in custody. The children were removed in January 2009, after abuse and neglect allegations, but their case drew attention in December 2008, when the family requested a birthday cake.� The bakery refused to write, "Happy Birthday Adolf Hitler" on a cake.

State agencies and the court maintain that the children were not removed because of their names,� but the family believes otherwise.� They also state that they don't have any ties to neo-Nazies, even though their home is decorated with swastikas.

The court will decide in December if the children will finally be allowed to leave foster care and return to their parents.� Until that court date the family reports that they will continue to picket outside of a child services office in Flemington.

Past blog: What's in a Name? What if the Name Is Adolf Hitler?

SOURCES:
Adolf Hitler & sister Aryan Nation remain in foster care after 33 months; parents fight for return
Hitler's Parents Claim Judge Found No Abuse of Little Adolf, Aryan Nation

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Adoption / Foster Care: Adolf Hitler and His Sisters Remain in Foster Care

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Adolf Hitler and His Sisters Remain in Foster Care
Oct 30th 2011, 23:30

Heath and Deborah Campbell are still fighting to regain custody of their three children - Adolf Hitler Campbell, 5, JoyceLynn Aryan Nation, 3, and Honszlynn Hinler Jeannie Campbell - after 33 months in custody. The children were removed in January 2009, after abuse and neglect allegations, but their case drew attention in December 2008, when the family requested a birthday cake.� The bakery refused to write, "Happy Birthday Adolf Hitler" on a cake.

State agencies and the court maintain that the children were not removed because of their names,� but the family believes otherwise.� They also state that they don't have any ties to neo-Nazies, even though their home is decorated with swastikas.

The court will decide in December if the children will finally be allowed to leave foster care and return to their parents.� Until that court date the family reports that they will continue to picket outside of a child services office in Flemington.

Past blog: What's in a Name? What if the Name Is Adolf Hitler?

SOURCES: Adolf Hitler & sister Aryan Nation remain in foster care after 33 months; parents fight for return Hitler's Parents Claim Judge Found No Abuse of Little Adolf, Aryan Nation

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: What About a Gay Foster Parent?

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What About a Gay Foster Parent?
Oct 30th 2011, 10:00

Question: Can a Gay or Lesbian Become a Foster Parent?

Gay Adoption FAQ #1 | FAQ #2 | FAQ #3 | FAQ #4 | FAQ #5 | FAQ #6 | FAQ #7 | FAQ #8 | FAQ #9 | FAQ #10

Answer:

Whether a gay or lesbian person can become a foster parent will be determined on a state by state basis. Each state will have its own rules and regulations regarding fostering. Some regulations might include bedroom sizes, safety standards for the home, and/or number of children allowed in the home. I would recommend contacting your state and asking about requirements on whether they would support a gay foster parent.

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Hague Adoption Countries

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Hague Adoption Countries
Oct 30th 2011, 10:00

Mar 3 2008

"The Hague Conference on Private International Law is an intergovernmental organization, the purpose of which is "to work for the progressive unification of the rules of private international law" (Article 1 of the Statute of the Hague Conference)." The treaties themselves are called "Hague Conventions".

As of February 26, 2008, there are 75 countries that are members of the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption.

The countries below are divided by those that are members of the Hague Conference and the Convention on Intercountry Adoption and those who are not members of the Hague Conference but wish to be a party to the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption.

Members

Albania
Australia
Austria
Belarus
Belgium
Brazil
Bulgaria
Canada
Chile
China, People's Republic of
Cyprus
Czech Republic
Denmark
Ecuador
Estonia
Finland
France
Georgia
Germany
Hungary
Iceland
Ireland
Israel
Italy
Latvia
Lithuania
Luxembourg
Malta
Mexico
Monaco
Netherlands
New Zealand
Norway
Panama
Paraguay
Peru
Poland
Portugal
Romania
Russian Federation
Slovakia
Slovenia
South Africa
Spain
Sri Lanka
Sweden
Switzerland
Turkey
United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
United States of America
Uruguay
Venezuela

Non-Members

Andorra
Armenia
Azerbaijan
Belize
Bolivia
Burkina Faso
Burundi
Cambodia
Colombia
Costa Rica
Cuba
Dominican Republic
El Salvador
Guatemala
Guinea
India
Kenya
Madagascar
Mali
Mauritius
Moldova, Republic of
Mongolia
Philippines
San Marino
Thailand

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Saturday, October 29, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Russia Changing Adoptions

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Russia Changing Adoptions
Oct 29th 2011, 10:00

Russia has historically been in the top three countries in popularity among American adoptive families along with China and Guatemala. In 2006, Americans adopted 3,706 Russian children. Russia is not the only country changing it's international adoption policies. China's new stricter guidelines took effect May 1, 2007 and Guatemala is working to comply with the Hague Convention on Inter country Adoptions. (The State Department does not recommend adopting from Guatemala(2007)).

Current Status

History

In 2005, Russian adoptions by American parents slowed by a third. This is reportedly due to the battle between child care agencies and politicians, which has come to a head after the recent deaths of Russian children who have been murdered by their foreign adoptive parents. Since 1990, when Russian adoptions were made open to foreigners, 15 children have been murdered. The Education Ministry, which oversees the adoption of Russian children by foreigners, has been heavily scrutinized by the State Duma(lower house of the Federal Assembly, the parliament of the Russian Federation) after the mistreatment, abuse, and murder of Russian children by U.S. adoptive parents. The State Duma has accused the Education Ministry of being corrupt and making money off of the sell of Russian children. Russian adoptions and the Russian adoption process has been under investigation more than once.

Some reports estimate 700,000 children wait to be adopted in Russia.

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Birth Mother Poems

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Birth Mother Poems
Oct 29th 2011, 10:00

Birth Mother Poems | Foster Care Adoption Poems | Adoptee Poems | Adoption Reunion Poems | Adoptive Parent Poems | Adoption Poems for Little Ones

Adoption poems specifically, birth mother poems, sent in by readers of About Adoption & Foster Care. If you have a birth mother poem that you would like to share for possible publication, please submit it to About Adoption & Foster Care for review.

Adoption Birth Mother Poems Written by Birth Mothers

Adoption Birth Mother Poems about a Birth Mother's Love

Adoption Poems Written by Young Birth Mother's

Adoption Poems Written by Birthfathers

Adoption Poems by Subject - Main Page

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Friday, October 28, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: National Ban on Gay Fostering

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National Ban on Gay Fostering
Oct 28th 2011, 10:00

Question: How Would National Ban on Gay / Lesbian Foster Parents Impact each State?

This report provides new information on GLB adoption and foster care from the U.S. Census 2000, the National Survey of Family Growth (2002), and the Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (2004).

Gay Adoption FAQ #1 | FAQ #2 | FAQ #3 | FAQ #4 | FAQ #5 | FAQ #6 | FAQ #7 | FAQ #8 | FAQ #9 | FAQ #10

Answer:

A ban on gay and lesbian individuals being allowed to foster could displace 9,000 to 14,000 children if pursued nationally.

Such a national ban on GLB (Gay Lesbian Bi-sexual) foster care could cost from $87 to $130 million. The costs to individual states could range from $100,000 to $27 million.

SOURCE:
Adoption and Foster Care by Lesbian and Gay Parents in the United States Author(s): Gary Gates, Lee M.V. Badgett, Jennifer Ehrle Macomber, Kate Chambers with the Urban Institute.

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Thursday, October 27, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Time for Halloween Fun

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Time for Halloween Fun
Oct 27th 2011, 10:01

Halloween is a fun fall holiday, but for kids new to the holiday, whether foster or adoptive, it can be scary and not in a good Halloween way!

What can you do to help prepare new foster children or newly adopted children for Halloween?

Some Kids Have Never Gone Trick Or Treat Before

For some kids in foster care or who have been adopted internationally, Halloween can be over-whelming. One of my foster sons had never gone trick or treat before. Helping him get ready for the night was very exciting for us both. He turned out to be a very dashing, and of course, scary Vampire!

What Can You do to Help Kids Prepare for Halloween?

  • Read books together about fall, Halloween and trick-or-treating. For ideas visit Top 10 Halloween Books for Children selected by the Children's Book Guide.

  • Stroll down the Halloween section of stores and pick out fun props for decorating or get ideas to create spooky stuff on your own.

  • Enjoy Halloween movie favorites or television shows like It's the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown or other holiday hits offered on TV.

  • Carve a pumpkin together. Allow the kids to select the design and punch it onto the pumpkin. Make sure they understand that adults do the carving.

  • Look through magazines or online for costume ideas.

  • Let the kids choose their costumes or help create them. Make sure they can easily walk in the outfits, that there is nothing to trip on and that masks have large eye holes. Make-up is a better option as it doesn't obstruct vision.

  • Create fun and gross Halloween treats together.

Preparing to Go Trick or Treat

  • Go over safety rules like:

    • crossing the street
    • only go to houses where the porch light is on
    • don't eat candy before it's checked by an adult
      (Some hospitals offer free x-rays of candy to check for razor blades and other foreign objects.)
  • Teach your kids to trick-or-treat at houses where your family is familiar with the occupants.

  • Accompany the kids or have an older child, like a teen, go with them.

  • Talk about the fun some houses put into the night with scary music, lighting, or costumes. Being scared is more fun when you know it's fake.

  • Go over manners with the children, remind the kids to say, "Thank you" and to not disturb any fun props that a house might have on display in the yard or on the porch.

  • Set a time limit to the trick-or-treating so that the kids don't over do themselves or get enough candy to last until next Halloween.

  • Set out a fun dinner before the kids go trick or treat. Be creative and of course, gross. For example: put cheese-whiz on a pretzel and call it "buggers on a stick". Serve chilled grapes and call them eye balls. We love this tradition.

In the end if it all just gets to be too much for your child, look at other fall fun ideas that are not so scary. If your child is not allowed to celebrate Halloween, due to birth parent's request or religious reasons, find some ideas on what to do on October 31, instead of trick-or-treating.

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Halloween Costume Ideas

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Halloween Costume Ideas
Oct 27th 2011, 10:01

Experienced foster parents usually have a multitude of extra essentials around the house, extra toothbrushes, school supplies, diapers, and even some clothing. But how many foster parents have extra Halloween costumes? Here are a few last minute Halloween costume ideas and tips for the late October foster care placements with a lot of help from our Guide to Family Crafts. Many of these options require items that you probably have lying around your home.

Cardboard Boxes Make Great Last Minute Halloween Costumes

My daughter has been the Pets for Sale as well as Velma from Scooby Doo. How? A cardboard box colored to resemble The Mystery Van that she wore around her middle, one orange sweatshirt, glasses, and her clutching a stuffed Scooby Doo was all it took. She was a hit.

Sweatsuit Halloween Costume Ideas

Again, a great Halloween costume can be created quickly with a solid colored sweatsuit and a bit of creativity. We've done the Dalmatian Halloween costume as well as the puppy. My favorite one was when we dressed our daughter up like a skunk. Too cute with a black sweatsuit and white and black faux fur hot glued in all the right places.

Find a Last Minute Halloween Costume at a Thrift Store or Your Closet

Don't spend a bunch of money on a Halloween costume when you may have what you need in your closet or at the local thrift store, just waiting to be spookified. (Yes, I made up that last word.)

Don't Forget Halloween Make-up

Our Guide to DIY Fashion offers several face painting tutorials. Not to mention the completely funny do-it-yourself instructions on facial hair. You just never know when you may need a fake beard and mustache.

Remember Halloween Costume Safety

While rushing around to create a fabulous, last minute Halloween costume, don't skimp on safety. The Guide to Pediatrics offers several suggestions. Good things to keep in mind while seeking out the perfect Halloween look.

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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Over Shampooing

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Over Shampooing
Oct 26th 2011, 10:00

African American Hair Care Error #2 | Hair Care Error #3 | Hair Care Error #4

Black hair should not be shampooed every day, or every other day for that matter. Instead, shampoo your child's hair every 5-7 days. I know this may confuse those who shampoo daily; however, you must remember that Black hair needs oil, and because it distributes less sebum, frequent shampooing can dry out the hair and scalp.

Tip for getting through "shampoo-less" days:

Rinse hair with warm water, apply conditioner, and rinse well. This will give you a clean start and provide added conditioning and moisture without stripping away protective oils.

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Foster Care Adoption Poems

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Foster Care Adoption Poems
Oct 26th 2011, 10:00

Birth Mother Poems | Foster Care Adoption Poems | Adoptee Poems | Adoption Reunion Poems | Adoptive Parent Poems | Adoption Poems for Little Ones

Adoption poems specifically, foster care and foster care adoption poems, sent in by readers of About Adoption & Foster Care. If you have an adoption or foster care poem that you would like to share for possible publication, please submit it to About Adoption & Foster Care for review.

Adoption Poems about Foster Care Adoption

Adoption Poems by Subject - Main Page

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Step Parent Adoption

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Step Parent Adoption
Oct 26th 2011, 10:00

1. Consult an Adoption Attorney and/or Step Parent Adoption Laws in Your State

Each State will vary on step parent adoptions so it's wise to speak to an attorney. An adoption attorney will know your State's adoption laws. You will also need to find out how your State defines consent to adoption.

2. Consent to Adoption

In order for an adoption to take place consent must be given. With adoption, usually both birth parents must consent for an adoption to take place. With a step parent adoption, if the non-custodial parent objects State laws may prevent the adoption from taking place. Some States have special circumstances where the non-custodial parent’s consent is not needed. Other States have special provisions that allow the step parent adoption to take place even with objections. These provisions include lack of communication between the child and non-custodial parent for a period of time.

Another consent that may be needed is that of the child. If the child is old enough to understand it is wise to discuss the adoption with the child. In nearly all States there are requirements where children must give consent to adoption if over a certain age. Some States say 14, while others set the age of consent at 12, a few have gone as young as 10. Per State law a child's signature is needed for an adoption to take place if the child is at the age of consent.

3. Contact the Court that Handles Adoptions in Your County

Ask for an information packet on step parent adoptions. If they do not have that type of information prepared for mailing, ask the following:

  • Can you represent yourself or do you need an attorney?
  • Do you need an adoption home study? If so sign up for a home study right away as this takes time. Also, be aware that a completed home study is good for only one year.
  • What forms are needed and where can you find these forms?
4. Gather and Submit Legal Forms

If you have an attorney he/she will complete this step.

5. Wait for Notification of Court Date

The notification will come by letter or through your attorney. You usually have to attend this hearing.

6. The Hearing

The judge or magistrate will question the parties involved. Your attorney should prepare you for this hearing. The judge or magistrate will set a date for the finalization of the adoption.

7. Finalize the Adoption

Adoption certificates are issued at this hearing.

8. Apply for the Amended Birth Certificates

After finalization apply for amended birth certificates.

SOURCE: The National Adoption Information Clearinghouse (NAIC)

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Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Adoption / Foster Care: Fully Understanding Your Role as a Foster Parent

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Fully Understanding Your Role as a Foster Parent
Oct 26th 2011, 02:23

Part of becoming a new foster parent is understanding how to advocate for your foster children and who you will be partnering within the many different agencies. Take a moment and learn more about each area of the foster care system and how foster parents work with the different people within each one.

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Adoption / Foster Care: Fully Understanding Your Role as a Foster Parent

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Fully Understanding Your Role as a Foster Parent
Oct 26th 2011, 02:23

Part of becoming a new foster parent is understanding how to advocate for your foster children and who you will be partnering within the many different agencies. Take a moment and learn more about each area of the foster care system and how foster parents work with the different people within each one.

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Foster Care Adoption Blogs

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Foster Care Adoption Blogs
Oct 25th 2011, 10:00

The best thing about these blogs is the names. With gems like, "Am I Nuts?", "Other People's Kids", and "What Was I Thinking? you know that you're about to read some great blogs. Family foster care and foster care adoption is a stressful job, but it's also a rewarding one. We all need a safe place to vent, and these bloggers have found their safe spot on the web.

From the site: "Michelle Vandepas is a Foster-Adopt Stay at Home Mom, writer and now blogger. She has been published in several national magazines including Fostering Families Magazine." What I like about Michelle is the fact that she writes about her life. It's fun to read as she shares about the children that she fosters. Great blog!
One of the things that I like about this blog is the fact that it is written by a man. I love reading a foster dad's perspective. I also like the fact that he grew up with parents that fostered over 100 kids.
This blogger has a very interesting and unique foster care story to share. From the blogger: "My family doing foster care since 2000. We are a fostering family. Our original family of 4 (Mom, Dad, and two boys) has since added 3 boys. All came to us as teenagers, and all are gay. This is a place for me to think out loud, and maybe get feedback from people who foster and parents of gay and lesbian kids."
This blogger has many viewpoints into the world of foster kids. He has worked with foster children as a CASA volunteer (Court Appointed Special Advocate), Big Brother, and through juvenile probation. He is also a new adoptive father to an 11-year-old girl. From the Blogger: "My blog will focus on what the system is like now, and how we can all help to change it to a more child friendly and supportive system." A very informative blog.
A blog written by a lesbian couple who just recently received their foster care license. From the Bloggers: "This blog will outline our journey, and describe both the challenges and successes of becoming a foster family. We hope to make this blog a resource for both current and prospective foster parents. We hope that our blog will provide a more balanced viewpoint, and will encourage others to participate."
This blogger began fostering when she was 24-years-old. Now that she is married, she and her husband have decided last August to commit to a long- term foster placement. Follow her along as they journey through different foster placements.
From the Blogger: "Just the journal of my life. I don't really have anyone I can vent to in real life, so I decided to at least get it out of my system and vent online. Being a mommy and foster mommy to seven kids, it's not a good idea to keep all this stuff bottled up. In the course of my day I deal with several forms of ADHD, PTSD,Hemophilia, Communications Disorder, Learning Disabilities, and possible Autistic behavior. Life is never dull in my household!"
A single, lesbian woman in California offers this great blog of a single woman beginning the fostering process. To answer the question - yes, you are, but we are all nuts, and foster anyway!

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Adoption / Foster Care: What's Hot Now: Because of Winn-Dixie

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Because of Winn-Dixie
Oct 25th 2011, 10:00

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Because of Winn-Dixie is a beautiful story that will invoke childhood memories of summer fun and friends.

Because of Winn-Dixie focuses on a child, who is being raised by her father, and her new friend, "Winn-Dixie." Due to the grief and loss experienced by Opal and her father, is Because of Winn-Dixie a good story for foster or adopted children?

The Storyline

While shopping at a local Winn-Dixie, Opal witnesses a stray dog causing quite a stir. Somehow this crazed mutt managed to get into the store and run around like mad. Opal claims the dog as her own and names him Winn-Dixie.

Opal, who is 10 years old, is new to the Florida town and lives with her father, the preacher. With the help of Winn-Dixie, Opal makes new friends. She also begins to talk more about her mother who abandoned her several years before.

Is "Because of Winn-Dixie" a Good Choice for Foster or Adopted Children?

The story does center around a child who is missing her mother who abandoned her, however, author, Kate DiCamillo, handles the story line beautifully. I liked how Opal asks her dad to tell her 10 things about her mother. I thought that this might be a great exercise for children who miss their parents; a short list of positives to memorize and/or write in a journal or lifebook.

Sadness is, of course, a part of the story, but so is hope, friendship, and love. The characters move on with their lives and grow out of their own loss and sadness. Another great example. Because of Winn-Dixie demonstrates to the readers how everyone has experienced a loss and life still goes on. The characters talk about their losses and compassion is shown to each other. This is a wonderful model for the children who will read and love this book.

There is still much fun to be had as the dog and his little owner get into a few situations at church, the grocery store, and the library. Children will smile while reading Because of Winn-Dixie. I would not hesitate to allow my foster or adopted children to read it.

About the Author

Kate DiCamillo lives and writes in Minneapolis, Minnesota. She won the Newberry Honor award for Because of Winn-Dixie and the 2003 Newberry award for The Tale of Despereaux.

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Because of Winn-Dixie is a beautifully written story that children and adults will enjoy. Loss is a main theme and is dealt with in an uplifting way.

Because of Winn-Dixie is recommended for children between the ages 9-12.

(Published by the Candlewick Press, March 2000
ISBN 0-76360-776-2)

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